My things “ex CHANGED” my LIFE

Exciting moments of life gives us lots of happiness.But when exciting moments occupy your life at some time,make sure you get ready to face also the exact opposite happenings.

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This is not at all thinking in a negative way but to make your mind ready for some instances,preparing to face them with Boldness.

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I tell this to you bcoz….some moments make you feel lonely such that you lose confidence in yourself and you just feel HELPLESS for all the shocks you receive sometimes….

The things that makes you BOLD makes you feel HELPLESS…

Life is nothing but accepting unexpected  happenings…!!! and this line is very hard to accept ….we realize this only when we face the hardtimes….

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When the world is before you with many challenges,your own mind shouldn’t be a challenge for you..Be a person to forgive all the illness of life’s happenings…! Be a person to face the highest agony and face the world with a smile :)

The Joy in happy times and the pain in sad time are EXTREMES of life.. MEANS is dealing with EXTREMES…. :) :(

A single drop of water with lots of feelings is a “Tear”.
When you shed them,make sure they carry some value before they leave your EYE..!!!

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The best thing of life is BEING HAPPY…!!!

The best thing of being happy is to LIVE life ….!!!

May seem simple but carries lot of meaning …add it to your life…!!!

Good things happen to good people…!!!

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When the world is against you and if u win in that case it means that you are GOOD enough to succeed.The first and foremost thing you must possess is self confidence.It makes you potent to be perfect.Whenever the strength within you is inhibited,jus imagine the feelings of your parents when you reach heights.That will make you shine and regain your innate strength.

Everyone is born in the same way.The way they shows up makes all the difference.Although you faced some of the failures,you need not sit depressed,it jus means that you are already in the path of success.When a failure is witnessed by you it means that you have given a TRIAL and you are running for success.

When your mind doesn’t answer you to any of your questions,it doesn’t mean that your mind is blank.It means that your mind needs your encouragement to get activated,you are the inspirational idol for all the things that come from your mind.

Never give up anything by jus witnessing a couple of failures,generally the beginnings are scary and lateron success will be YOURS for sure….

Come on gear up to give your strength to your mind…..

You can do it…!!!!

SeCrEt BeHiND tHe PuRsuIt Of HaPpInEsS

SeCrEt BeHiND tHe PuRsuIt Of HaPpInEsS

Everyone just thinks that this flower is so beautiful with all colored petals..but such flowers don’t exist even by chance.In the same way a perfect person don’t exist …all shades of life must be experienced and then you look awesome….!!!

Elixir of all pains..!!!

Have you ever been depressed so long unable to bear the pain created by your close ones or situations or fate??Obviously you must have faced such situations for sure,because pain is a part and parcel of maintaining human relations.

You must be largely experienced either by causing pain to others or being affected by others.It is very natural that we do get hurt and we do hurt others but all this was not intentional,instead was unintentional issues.

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We suffer a lot and get depressed in such moments without even thinking the root cause for the pain or situation. After all we are humans and we are not called by that name if all this exactly wont happen with us.We must be some super natural power for not happening this to us.

Whatever the bottomline is “WE EXPECT NOT TO EXPERIENCE THE SAME PAIN AGAIN AND AGAIN”,because it is we who knew the depth of the suffering as struggling alone in pain is a bloody hell.

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I am the one who experienced this pain many a time but never complained about it to anyone.Finally one day my pain shattered out ,came out of me and i burst out before my dad.To my surprise,the pain or the suffering which has been killing me since many days got disappeared all at once when i shared it with my dad.I realized how foolish am i all these days,even without sharing my pain to my parents.The moment my dad witnessed my agony,he just has no words to say,gave sometime to me to make sure all the suffering within me is out and then just took my hands  into this hands and said “HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF THE PERSON WHO HURT YOU AND WHY DID HE HURT U?”..Out of my irksome nature,i  jus said why should i?

Then he said to me that thats the reason why you suffered these many days.I dint get my dad at the moment,but later on when days passed by,i got to know how mom and dad used to understand each other.

To my shock they never fought nor even scolded each other.They always understand each other imagining themselves in the other person’s situation..This is called EMPATHETIC VIEW.

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Just try to understand others by thinking in their way..thats it…PAIN WILL NEVER SUFFER YOU.

trust me…

have an empathetic view….

This entry was posted on November 3, 2012. 3 Comments